New ICM has the exact same resistance as the old ICM from pin B (bypass circuit) to the case ground of 9.6 ohms. So I put the old ICM back in and did the ground short test again, this time using a test light as the manual says to do, instead of a voltmeter, probing ECM harness BC7 and the other end to 12V. The test light did not come on. Voltmeter still showed voltage of 11.4V.
I feel somewhat led astray by the service manual because in the intro to the electrical section it says a voltmeter can be used anywhere a test light is called for. Apparently that is NOT the case, because even though the voltmeter read 11V, there was not enough of a ground to light up a test light. So maybe a resistance of 9ohms to ground does not indicate a short.
I did use the Deoxit D5 on the ECM connections. I also found the battery cable's negative terminal stripped, so I replaced that. Drove the car for 8 miles without any problems. I don't know if I fixed it or not. I guess time will tell. 🤷 I'm afraid to return the ICM before I know for sure, because that could invoke Murphy's Law 😳 in addition to Ohm's