That's normal. Are you putting pressure gauge on the fuel rail when it won't start to see if the pump is building enough pressure? Instructions for testing in the How-to guides here on ROJ.
Now I remember two different inline fuses under the drivers dash on the 89 we worked on, but I don't know specifically what they were for. We swapped the entire dash with my parts car and lots of things were then right in the open. I have not done anything like that on my 90, so I do not know either
I think you are correct about one for the ABS being above the relays on the firewall (#11 in the photo).
According to the '89 FSM there is also one that powers the EBCM in a location that appears to be under the dash (#10 in the photo) and was also reported in the forums years ago. 1990 models might be different.
I can't confirm the location of the fuse for the EBCM because I have never laid eyes on it. Just passing on information.
I've used Kroil for years as a machinist with good success. It was provided by my employer so cost wasn't a consideration. Trans fluid and acetone is good, but acetone is highly flammable in enclosed spaces.
I have used the ATF/acetone mix on and off for years, and it does work well. Relatively inexpensive and a good way to use up those odd bottles of ATF from a vehicle you no longer have. I suspect power steering fluid would work as well but have never tried that.